The greatest gift is our ability to make choices – and of course the freedom to make choices. But do we really give our children enough opportunities to make good choices? We begin by dressing, feeding, and entertaining our children as infants because they are unable to do so, until they have learned for themselves. Our first opportunity to empower them to make choices happens when they learn to speak. Then we can offer them choices and ask them to select. I believe that offering them 2-3 good choices, is good parenting. If I could begin again…rap music would not have been one of the choices. Nor would unlimited video games and or sugared drinks. I would offer movies, games, and books that stimulate the imagination. I would offer those items that teach the lessons of forgiveness, truth, and love. Also, those that free us from fear, jealousy, rage and…
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Categories: Brace Yourself Blog
Kathryn Stockett’s book The Help has many themes some of which include race, the importance of literature and writing, and society and class. However another important theme, loving others, is explored through the relationship between Aibileen and Mae Mobley. Mae Mobley is the two year old daughter of Elizabeth and Raleigh Leefolt. Aibileen Clark is the maid who takes care of her. Mae Mobley is neglected and physically and verbally abused by her mother Elizabeth. When Mae Mobley starts to believe these things are her own fault, Aibileen feels compelled to change the girl’s mind. She tries to instill in the little girl a sense of self-worth by asking Mae Mobley to remember three things, “You is kind. You is smart. You is important.” Abileen realizes that she has the power to influence this young child’s future by teaching her love, kindness and equality. Those three sentences have had a…